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		<title>zack weingartner reviews &#8216;understanding your young teen&#8217;</title>
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										</div>a wonderfully thorough review of my latest book, understanding your young teen, on zack weingartner&#8217;s blog. a bit from the beginning: The first time a parent came to me as the youth group leader to ask for parenting advice was crazy. It was crazy for a lot of reasons, but the primary reason was that [...]]]></description>
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										</div><p></p><p><a href="http://whyismarko.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/zack-weingartner.jpg"><img src="http://whyismarko.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/zack-weingartner.jpg" alt="" title="zack weingartner" width="220" height="165" class="alignright size-full wp-image-10245" /></a>a wonderfully thorough review of my latest book, <a href="http://theyouthcartel.com/store/understanding-your-young-teen/">understanding your young teen</a>, on <a href="http://zackweingartner.blogspot.com/2012/01/review-understanding-your-young-teen-by.html">zack weingartner&#8217;s blog</a>.  a bit from the beginning:</p>
<blockquote><p>The first time a parent came to me as the youth group leader to ask for parenting advice was crazy. It was crazy for a lot of reasons, but the primary reason was that I was only 19 years old and the student in question was 14. I had nothing to say, mostly because I had nothing to offer &#8211; I was trying to figure out how to respond to the Elders&#8217; request that I take my lip ring out and stop dyeing my hair green.</p>
<p><a href="http://whyismarko.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/Understanding-Your-Young-Teen.jpg"><img src="http://whyismarko.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/Understanding-Your-Young-Teen.jpg" alt="" title="Understanding Your Young Teen" width="300" height="300" class="alignleft size-full wp-image-10246" /></a>The reason that Marko&#8217;s new book &#8220;Understanding Your Young Teen&#8221; is so important is because it goes a long way towards closing the gap in the kinds of conversations that parents and people who work with young teens have to have, both with the teens themselves and with one another. The content of the book is a training for parents (the subtitle after all is &#8220;Practical Wisdom for Parents&#8221;) but applies so wonderfully to my everyday world working with middle school students and their families that I must rave about it. Here goes:</p></blockquote>
<p>and from the end:</p>
<blockquote><p>This book isn&#8217;t just a quick read and put on the shelf book. It is a field guide and handbook for anyone that has the best in mind for a young teen, or a group of young teens. My kids are little, but this book will come back into play for me in a whole new way in just a few years. If you are a parent of a young teen, or a soon to be young teen this will profoundly impact your parenting, your home &#8211; your entire life. If you teach this age or pastor this age of teen &#8211; you will learn more that you can imagine and have to underline and re-read to grasp it. Marko is a voice for a change in understanding and changing the way we do everything in ministry &#8211; and now in parenting &#8211; that none of us can afford to ignore or miss.
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<p>you&#8217;ll have to <a href="http://zackweingartner.blogspot.com/2012/01/review-understanding-your-young-teen-by.html">click through</a> for all the rest!</p>
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		<title>the weird experience of my weird nativities post</title>
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										</div>last post on the craziness of my &#8220;27 worst nativities&#8221; post. a little round up. in the month of december, that post got: - 570 comments - 68 trackbacks - 48,108 shares on facebook - 69,000 likes on facebook - 530 tweets and - 457,000 visits (just to that post) holy cow &#8212; a half [...]]]></description>
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										</div><p></p><p><a href="http://whyismarko.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/zombie-nativity-set.jpg"><img src="http://whyismarko.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/zombie-nativity-set-300x198.jpg" alt="" title="zombie nativity set" width="300" height="198" class="alignright size-medium wp-image-10199" /></a>last post on the craziness of my &#8220;<a href="http://whyismarko.com/2011/27-worst-nativity-sets-the-annual-growing-list/">27 worst nativities</a>&#8221; post. a little round up. in the month of december, that post got:<br />
- 570 comments<br />
- 68 trackbacks<br />
- 48,108 shares on facebook<br />
- 69,000 likes on facebook<br />
- 530 tweets<br />
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- 457,000 visits (just to that post)</p>
<p>holy cow &#8212; a half million visitors to one post. </p>
<p>facebook was the machine that spread the thing. but a handful of the others:</p>
<p><a href="http://www.fark.com/comments/6775794/Why-not-mix-it-up-this-Christmas-with-a-shotgun-shell-Mother-Mary-a-penguin-Joseph-a-smore-baby-Jesus">fark.com</a> was first with the simple one-line question: Why not mix it up this Christmas with a shotgun shell Mother Mary, a penguin Joseph, and a s&#8217;more baby Jesus?</p>
<p>the multi-blogger religion site patheos had a handful of bloggers who provided a steady stream of incoming traffic (in descending order of traffic):<br />
<a href="http://www.patheos.com/blogs/theanchoress/2011/11/30/why-does-god-love-us/">the anchoress</a>, with the blog title &#8220;why does god love us?&#8221;<br />
<a href="http://www.patheos.com/blogs/thecrescat/2011/11/according-to-my-nativity-set-jesus-was-irish-so-there.html">the crescat</a>, &#8220;according to my nativity set, jesus was irish, so there&#8230;&#8221;<br />
<a href="http://www.patheos.com/blogs/deaconsbench/2011/11/worlds-worst-nativity-sets/">the deacon&#8217;s bench</a>, who just called it &#8220;the world&#8217;s worst nativity sets&#8221;</p>
<p>london&#8217;s daily mail newspaper posted <a href="http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2068860/We-smores-Orient--Could-worst-nativity-scenes-time.html">an entire article</a> on their website with a bunch of the images.</p>
<blockquote><p>It&#8217;s not so much baby Jesus in a manger as baby sausage on a bed of sauerkraut in one unorthodox &#8211; and fully edible &#8211; nativity scene.</p>
<p>In another, it&#8217;s a stretch to sense Mary and Joseph when faced with two white marshmallows &#8211; and as for a group of cupcakes posing as three kings, artistic imagination is key.</p>
<p>But these holiday scenes are all made in good cheer and, from the especially inappropriate gunshell Jesus to the oddly rustic clay &#8216;frozen burrito&#8217; baby, all will surely give any Christmas celebrations a welcome talking point.<br />
Celebrating the beginning of advent, blogger Mark Oestreicher has put together a fast-growing list of the worst nativity scenes ever.</p>
<p>Having last year created a list of 20 bad-taste holiday features, this year the list expanded to 27. Since being read by over 120,000 people, however, the list has swelled to 37 &#8211; with some hilarious, disturbing and downright off-subject inclusions.<br />
The list, at WhyIsMarko.com, includes everything from china kittens to butter figures and even a Godzilla holy birth place.</p></blockquote>
<p>then, i got contacted by a writer for the &#8216;weird news&#8217; section of the huffington post.  he interviewed me, and wrote <a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/12/02/weird-nativity-scenes-are-christian-writers-cross-to-bear_n_1124042.html">this article</a>, which appeared in the &#8216;weird news&#8217; section and the &#8216;religion&#8217; section, and was on the front page of huffpo for a while.  an excerpt: </p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;I find the ones that depict the nativity with cats or dogs to be hideously laughable,&#8221; Oestreicher said. &#8220;Same with the kitchen timer that features Jesus, Mary and Joseph.&#8221;</p>
<p>But Oestreicher&#8217;s comments regarding the nuttier nativity scenes have made some people cross.</p>
<p>&#8220;I&#8217;ve had a few sour comments about how the blog post displeases God,&#8221; he admitted. &#8220;But I point out that this is the same God who created laughter.&#8221;</p>
<p>Though Oestreicher used to think that depicting the birth of Jesus with rubber duckies &#8220;sucked,&#8221; but had an epiphany that helped change his tune.</p>
<p>&#8220;These are peoples&#8217; whimsical attempts to engage in a profound mystery,&#8221; he said.</p>
<p>He&#8217;s even found inspiration from some nativity scenes that helped him explain the concept of God and Jesus to a group of junior high school students.</p>
<p>&#8220;I told them, &#8216;Imagine a giant Lego set and you decide to go into the Lego scene,&#8217; &#8221; Oestreicher said. &#8220;That&#8217;s what God did when he sent his only son down to Earth.&#8221;</p></blockquote>
<p>south florida&#8217;s sun-sentinal newspaper contacted me, and ran this piece first: <a href="http://www.sun-sentinel.com/features/religion/faith-and-values/sfl-fv-religion-blog-weird-nativity-scenes,0,7382317.story">Bizarre Nativity scenes: Dogs, butter, bacon, Godzilla. Christian blogger puts out tongue-in-cheek Yuletide list</a>.  i&#8217;m glad they included this: </p>
<blockquote><p>Oestreicher, who lives in La Mesa, Calif., offers some droll comments but not the condemnation that some readers have reacted with. For them, he has a standard answer: &#8220;My feeling is that the creative God who invented fun and laughter smiles with us at these.&#8221;
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<p>of course, dozens of blogs linked in.  but my favorite was when i noticed incoming traffic from author/humor-columnist <a href="http://blogs.herald.com/dave_barrys_blog/2011/12/ho-ho-ho-1.html">dave barry&#8217;s blog</a>. i have been a fan of dave barry&#8217;s writing since i was in high school, when i would wait eagerly for the supplement in the detroit news sunday edition that has his column in it.  i&#8217;ve read dozens of his books.  early in our marriage, jeannie would get frustrated with me when i would read dave barry books in bed, because i would wiggle the bed with my suppressed laughter. she would wake up and say, &#8220;you&#8217;re reading dave barry again, aren&#8217;t you?&#8221;  so, yeah, i didn&#8217;t know that getting an incoming link to my blog from &#8220;my friend dave barry&#8217;s&#8221; blog was on my bucket list.  but it sure felt like i checked it off when i saw the incoming traffic from dave (we&#8217;re hanging out later, yeah).</p>
<p>even my local <a href="http://lamesa.patch.com/articles/edible-nativity-scenes-bacon-sausage-and-spam-served-on-la-mesan-s-blog">la mesa patch</a> did a little piece on it, with a bit more of a &#8220;he&#8217;s a local!&#8221; vibe to it.</p>
<p>as the traffic started to slowly back down to &#8220;above normal but not insane&#8221;, i got an email from a <a href="http://netny.net/currents/">catholic tv show</a> based in nyc, asking if they could interview me on air and show some of the nativities. they asked me to create my top 10, and the host and i went through that list (i was limited to the ones i had permission to use, but it&#8217;s still a good list).</p>
<p>right at the end of the month (just prior to new year&#8217;s eve), a surprising <a href="http://www.nationalreview.com/corner/286838/end-year-links-debby-witt">link from the national review</a> (an otherwise political magazine and website) brought in another 7000 or so.</p>
<p>all in all, it was simply nuts. and &#8212; being fully honest &#8212; i&#8217;m glad it&#8217;s now in the past!</p>
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										</div>super-smart youth ministry blogger paul martin ran a blog series (that no one read, because he posted them during christmas week) asking a variety of people to reflect on the question, &#8220;what&#8217;s the single objective of youth ministry?&#8221; there are some really interesting responses, worth reading, from: joel mayward and adam mclane benjamin kerns and [...]]]></description>
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<p>there are some really interesting responses, worth reading, from:<br />
<a href="http://beingministry.com/2011/12/20/what-is-the-single-objective-of-youth-ministry/">joel mayward and adam mclane</a><br />
<a href="http://beingministry.com/2011/12/21/what-is-the-single-objective-of-youth-ministry-pt-2/">benjamin kerns and jeremy zach</a><br />
<a href="http://beingministry.com/2011/12/22/what-is-the-single-objective-of-youth-ministry-pt-3/">mark riddle</a></p>
<p>here&#8217;s my response (<a href="http://beingministry.com/2011/12/27/what-is-the-single-objective-of-youth-ministry-pt-4/">click here</a> to see paul&#8217;s comments):</p>
<blockquote><p>yikes. this is a scary question. i like complexity, and abhor easy-answer-theology.  so, while i know you, paul, well enough to know you’re not looking for an easy answer or a 3-step process, identifying a “single objective” of anything is tough, because, we always have multiple objectives — always, whether we want to or not.  i’d be so much more comfortable with a list of objectives than singling one out.</p>
<p>but…</p>
<p>i’ll play along.  and i’m gonna use one word: christlikeness. that’s our singular objective, i suppose.  if i were to put it into a sentence, it would be something like, “the single objective of youth ministry is to walk with teenagers on their journey toward christlikeness.”</p>
<p>of course, there’s a ton of secondary objectives implied in my sentence (as is — did i already say this? — always the case).  as joel mayward wrote on your first day of this series, one can’t merely say “the objective is discipleship” without addressing what we mean by discipleship.  of course, i know that you — paul — have a very different working definition and practice of discipleship than many youth workers. same is true here (and, really, i suppose my “christlikeness” and joel’s “discipleship” are two ways of saying the same thing).</p>
<p>my role as a youth worker is to live, honestly, my own journey toward christlikeness with and in front of the teenagers in my midst. i can’t change teenagers — that’s the holy spirit’s job.  i’m not directly in the transformation business; i’m in the transformation hosting business. hosting is a metaphor that brings up sub-metaphors like stewarding (“how do i steward the time i have with teenagers in a way that best exposes them to the transforming work of the holy spirit?”), curator (“how can i highlight and bring attention to the good stuff god is already doing in the world, and in the lives of teenagers?”), and evangelist. wait — did i just say evangelist?!?!  yup — but i don’t mean it in the way you might think.  i mean it in the same way that apple might have an evangelist on staff.  my role as a youth worker (connecting with what adam mclane wrote for you) is to be the evangelist for teenagers in my church. i am the lead banner waver for teenagers in my congregation, reminding them of their responsibility to collectively engage with the teenagers in their midst.</p></blockquote>
<p>whatcha think? how would you answer that question?</p>
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<p>the &#8216;launch ministry&#8217; blog has a great three part summary of the day:</p>
<p><a href="http://www.launchministry.org/2011/11/22/reflections-from-the-extended-adolescence-symposium-part-1/">part 1 &#8211; short overview</a>.  a snippet:</p>
<blockquote><p>While in agreement on the general characteristics and trends of young people, the two presenters had vastly different responses to the data.  Dr. Arnett views himself as a researcher and is very hesitant to create prescriptive responses to emerging adulthood.  When pressed, he seems to indicate that this new stage of life is an unavoidable reality.  This is the way things are now and are likely to be in the near future.  As a society, we need to begin thinking about how to change our systems and structures to adjust to this new reality.  He used the example of young adults being able to stay on their parents’ health insurance until age 26 as one positive idea for what this might look like.</p>
<p>Dr. Epstein, however, views himself as an agent of social change.  He believes that emerging adulthood is a problem to be fixed.  T0 him, the immaturity and delay of adulthood means that our social structures are broken.  We need to change our parenting methods and our educational system to stop infantilizing young people and make them take responsibility for their actions while teaching them the competencies they need in order to make it in the world.</p></blockquote>
<p><a href="http://www.launchministry.org/2011/11/23/reflections-from-the-extended-adolescence-symposium-part-2/">part 2 &#8211; framing a response</a>. a snippet:</p>
<blockquote><p>As I wrote at the end of the previous post, while I appreciate Dr. Epstein’s ideas about stopping the infantilization of young people and instilling competencies, the reality is that even if as a society we fully engaged his suggestions, we would still have generations of emerging adults that are experiencing difficulties.  Because of this, I believe our response must include a directed response toward emerging adults and those that soon will be as well as a component that seeks to prevent the more destructive elements of this life stage.</p>
<p>Additionally, since this is a broad sociological issue throughout (primarily) western culture, our solutions and responses must include both activity within the church as well as beyond the walls of the church.  My quadrant, then, will include reflections regarding earlier prevention as well as a direct response working with the current generation of emerging adults both inside and outside the church.</p></blockquote>
<p><a href="http://www.launchministry.org/2011/11/28/reflections-from-the-extended-adolescence-symposium-part-3/">part 3 &#8211; implications for churches</a>.  a snippet:</p>
<blockquote><p>A role in the community is something that young adults need and lack.  This is especially true of emerging adults that do not attend a four year college.  Those that do have a culturally defined role of ‘college student’ that has certain expectations around it.  Those that do not, however, are left floundering in a weird in-between place where there is no role that helps define who they are.  Could churches intentionally engage emerging adults, creating opportunities for leadership within the church and in the community?  Maybe there could be post-high school internships or leadership development programs than intentionally seek to provide a role for emerging adults.  Perhaps in some contexts there is room for a specific emerging adult ministry (a more mature youth group for college aged young people?), though I think that this could be problematic if the group does not intentionally find ways to connect emerging adults with older adults in the church.</p></blockquote>
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		<title>the role of the holy spirit in youth ministry</title>
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										</div>i was one of the three contributors on this week&#8217;s slant33.com question: what&#8217;s the role of the holy spirit in your youth ministry? click here to see the excellent responses from the other two contributors, albert tate and brooklyn lindsey. but here&#8217;s my response: I’ve had a bit of an awakening to the Holy Spirit [...]]]></description>
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<p>I’ve had a bit of an awakening to the Holy Spirit in the last couple years. As soon as most people read that first sentence, though, they will assume I mean that I’ve awoken to signs and wonders stuff. That’s not what I mean. (Everything on the table: I’m in the middle; I’m not a sensationalist, but I’ve not had much personal experience or desire for signs and wonders experiences.) The awakening to the Holy Spirit that I’ve experienced has played out on two levels: in my own life and faith practice and in my thinking about youth ministry and church leadership.</p>
<p>My last year at Youth Specialties and the pressure I felt to perform were particularly soul deadening for me. By the time I got laid off, I was close to burnout—both professionally and spiritually. But in the two or three months that followed, I experienced a gorgeous re-awakening of my soul. I felt God’s presence for the first time in a long time. My prayer life rekindled, and I started to hear God speaking, nudging, consoling. I knew this was the Holy Spirit, who had never left, of course. Instead, my spiritual eyes were merely opening to the Spirit’s presence. </p>
<p>This ramped up when I launched the Youth Ministry Coaching Program. When my cohorts were in times of personal sharing, I started sensing the Holy Spirit giving me insight that was beyond me, and I even started receiving what could only be called words of truth to be offered to others. I entered into the exercise of this with open hands—not grasping it or claiming it or arrogantly confident about whatever I might think I should say. But I was amazed, over and over again (as I have continued to be over the last eighteen months) that what I was hearing—from the Holy Spirit—was usually accurate. One of the most powerful of these was a time when I had a strong sense that another person in the sharing circle had a word from God for the person talking. Sure enough, when I called that out, the words spoken had a profoundly holy and truthy beauty to them, and we all knew we were on holy ground. </p>
<p>This has changed both my regular, everyday experience of God as well as my youth ministry practice. When I’m leading my middle-school-guys small group, for example, I’m trying to choose (and it is a choice, by the way) to simultaneously listen to my guys and to the Holy Spirit. One of the surprise benefits to me, in a youth ministry setting, is that I feel unburdened and free. That’s because I’m not carrying the absurd responsibility of being smart or insightful enough to know what to say. </p>
<p>This personal awakening and shift in my practice has also shaped my thinking about youth ministry and church leadership. If you ever hear me talk about Youth Ministry 3.0 stuff these days, I hope you hear the difference from what I wrote about in that book. When I wrote that book, about four years ago now, I was not operating with this mindset or experience, and most of my suggestions only tip a hat to the role of the Holy Spirit. But these days, I’m convinced that great youth workers (and great church leaders) need to recover the art of collaborative discernment. Great youth ministry takes all different forms because it has to be contextual. But the path to a wonderfully contextualized youth ministry is not merely an effort of assessment and study. In fact, it is first and foremost an exercise of listening (and I believe that listening needs to be practiced in community, which is why I am passionate about collaborative discernment). </p>
<p>Yes, we need to do assessments and learn about the community we do ministry in; yes, we need to read and study and observe. But more important than all of that is the intentional act of gathering a small group of spiritually minded people to actively listen to the Holy Spirit. Ask, What teenagers have you placed in our midst? (No, just observing them is not enough.) Listen. Ask, What teenagers are you calling us to in our community? Listen. Ask, What would a culturally and contextually appropriate approach be to reach those teenagers? Listen. </p>
<p>Bottom line #1: Without a sense of the Holy Spirit’s role in your life, you will always be limited in your own spiritual growth and practice and, therefore, in your youth ministry efforts. Bottom line #2: A youth ministry that’s not informed by active and intentional listening to the Holy Spirit will miss out on who God is calling it to be.</p>
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										</div>NPR&#8217;s classic show, This American Life, did an entire hour on the american middle school experience this past week. wow. so fantastic. you can listen to the whole thing, or to the individual segments listed below, by clicking though to the show&#8217;s page. PROLOGUE. Host Ira Glass interviews a 14-year old named Annie, who emailed [...]]]></description>
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<p>PROLOGUE.<br />
Host Ira Glass interviews a 14-year old named Annie, who emailed us asking if we would do a show about middle school. She explains why exactly the middle school years can be so daunting. (4 1/2 minutes)</p>
<p>ACT ONE LIFE IN THE MIDDLE AGES.<br />
In an effort to understand the physical and emotional changes middle school kids experience, Ira speaks with reporter Linda Perlstein, who wrote a book called Not Much Just Chillin&#8217; about a year she spent following five middle schoolers. Then we hear from producer Alex Blumberg, who was a middle school teacher in Chicago for four years before getting into radio. Alex&#8217;s takeaway? We shouldn&#8217;t even try teaching kids at this age. Marion Strok, principal of a successful Chicago school, disagrees. (6 1/2 minutes)<br />
<strong><em>marko comment: this is a great segment. and, i recommend that book (<a href="http://www.amazon.com/Not-Much-Just-Chillin-Schoolers/dp/0345475763/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&#038;qid=1320100222&#038;sr=8-1">not much just chillin&#8217;</a>).</em></strong></p>
<p>ACT TWO. STUTTER STEP.<br />
We sent several correspondents straight to the epicenters of middle school awkwardness: School dances. Producers Lisa Pollak and Brian Reed, plus reporters Eric Mennel, Rob Wildeboer and Claire Holman spoke with kids across the country during the nervous moments leading up to the dances. And Lisa even ventured inside, to the dance itself. (9 1/2 minutes)<br />
<strong><em>marko comment: a fascinating bit.</em></strong></p>
<p>ACT THREE. MIMIS IN THE MIDDLE.<br />
When Domingo Martinez was growing up in a Mexican-American family in Texas, Domingo&#8217;s two middle school aged sisters found a unique way of coping with feelings of inferiority. This story comes from Martinez&#8217;s memoir The Boy Kings of Texas, which Lyons Press will publish in July 2012. (11 1/2 minutes)<br />
<strong><em>marko comment: this is the one section i think you can completely skip. the producers could have easily found a literary piece to read that had more application and implication.</em></strong></p>
<p>ACT FOUR. ANCHOR BABIES.<br />
We realized that there are already reporters on the ground, embedded inside middle schools: The kids who report the daily announcements, sometimes on video with full newscast sets. Producer Jonathan Menjivar wondered what would happen if instead of announcing sports scores and the daily cafeteria menu, the kids reported what&#8217;s really on their minds. Students at Parkville Middle School outside Baltimore, and their journalism teacher Ms. Davis, agreed to try out this experiment. (7 1/2 minutes)<br />
<strong><em>marko: this section is fine, but if you need to cut somewhere, it&#8217;s not as helpful as some of the others.</em></strong></p>
<p>ACT FIVE. BLUE KID ON THE BLOCK.<br />
Producer Sarah Koenig reports on a kid we&#8217;ll call Leo, whose family recently moved away from Rochester, NY, leaving behind all of Leo&#8217;s friends and stranding him in a new—and in his opinion, much worse—middle school. (10 minutes)<br />
<strong><em>marko: you gotta listen to this one.</em></strong></p>
<p>ACT SIX. GRANDE WITH SUGAR.<br />
Ira speaks with Shannon Grande, a teacher at Rise Academy in Newark, about a seventh grader who had all sorts of problems with behavior and hygiene and schoolwork. In order to help turn him around, Grande had to harness the power of peer pressure for good. This story came from Elizabeth Green, who&#8217;s writing about Rise Academy for a book and for a reporting project on the schools called Gotham Schools. (7 minutes)<br />
<strong><em>marko: some helpful stuff in here.</em></strong></p>
<p><em>(big thanks to kevin libick for pointing this out to me!)</em></p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Oct 2011 11:00:43 +0000</pubDate>
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										</div>i absolutely love it when i stumble onto cool youth ministry resources that i&#8217;ve never heard of, never seen mentioned elsewhere. i&#8217;m a bit jaded, i suppose, and often have a &#8220;seen it all&#8221; attitude. so finding something i truly haven&#8217;t seen before &#8212; well, that makes me happy. finding theyouthculturereport.com was like that. my [...]]]></description>
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<p>finding <a href="http://theyouthculturereport.com/">theyouthculturereport.com</a> was like that.  my first exposure to it was when the guy who oversees it said he&#8217;d like to be a sponsor of the <a href="http://theyouthcartel.com/symposium/">extended adolescence symposium</a> (to be clear: this is <em>not</em> a &#8220;sponsored post&#8221; though &#8212; i&#8217;m writing about the youth culture report because i think you should know about it).  at first i thought, &#8220;oh man, that thing is butt ugly.&#8221;  but then i realized, &#8220;ah, <a href="http://www.drudgereport.com/">drudge report</a>.&#8221;  yup.  butt-ugliness, intentional.  usefulness, also intentional. </p>
<p>the youth culture report is a collection of links to news stories youth workers should be aware of.  that&#8217;s it. straight forward.  it&#8217;s not auto-generated via key words, so an actual human being is making sure each article linked is truly worth it.  </p>
<p>i&#8217;ve been checking in on the youth culture report for over a month now, to make sure i really liked it before i recommended it.  in the mean time, i downloaded both the iphone app and the ipad app.  i&#8217;m finding i use those even more than the website &#8212; they&#8217;re quickly becoming a go-to app when i&#8217;m sitting somewhere and have about five minutes to kill (wasn&#8217;t that tactful?).</p>
<p>anyhow, i really encourage you to check it out, if you&#8217;re a youth worker or the parent of a teenager.</p>
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		<title>how do you know when it&#8217;s time to move on from a youth ministry role?</title>
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										</div>i&#8217;ve really enjoyed being part of creating slant33.com this year. the youth cartel picked the 20 primary contributors, came up with the 52 weekly questions, and worked with the contributors to select three for each question. but i&#8217;m also one of the contributors. this week&#8217;s slant asks a practical question that has been posed to [...]]]></description>
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<p>here&#8217;s my response:</p>
<blockquote><p>I moved too often in my first bunch of years of youth ministry. Let’s just get that on the table right up front. I can easily explain or justify each move (the church couldn’t hire me full time; I got fired; there were budget cutbacks, and I was going to lose my job). All legit. All rational. </p>
<p>The problem is, though, I think my mess was too much a part of the decision-making goulash each time. I wanted more power. I wanted to be liked more. I wanted to be respected more. And, man, the grass is so freaking green at the church calling you. It’s like green food coloring green.</p>
<p>I’m not saying those moves were mistakes. But I’m definitely saying my process of deciding was faulty. Well, except maybe the time I got fired. I didn’t have much say in that. But my discernment process for the next job was just as faulty as the ones that offered more volition. It wasn’t until I left my fourth church, to go to Youth Specialties, that my process was patient and thoughtful and anything resembling spiritual discernment. </p>
<p>In church world, we are pretty good at masking this. We are quick with the “God is calling me” language because it just doesn’t sound that good to say, “I just don’t like you people” or, “Sorry, but that other church offered me way more money” or, “I ran out of ideas here and need to go somewhere else where I can repeat them all and have them seem new.” </p>
<p>Over my dozen years at Youth Specialties, and in the couple years since, I’ve had hundreds of youth workers ask me about leaving. I don’t think we have the space to go into a deep response about spiritual discernment. But let me take a swing at a couple other related issues: </p>
<p>Are you worn out? Youth ministry can be one of the more wearying jobs out there. There are plenty of other jobs that are more physically exhausting. But when you add in the emotional, mental, and relational strain, well, it’s easy to get toasty. So we all get worn out. The question is: Is this a worn out that, with some rest, you can come back from? Are you tired, or are you worn out to the point that you’re going to do damage if you stay? </p>
<p>You might need some extended rest or a sabbatical in order to figure this out. (Of course, that feels risky too. My friend asked for and received a three-month sabbatical to discern whether he was supposed to stay at his church. On the day he returned to tell the church he had a renewed sense of calling and was going to stay, they informed him they’d decided the opposite. Ah, churches. That goofy bride o’ Christ.) </p>
<p>The other significant question I think youth workers need to ask themselves is: Can I find something—anything—that I can respect about my senior pastor and leadership? In my experience, most people who are even considering a move at all are, to one extent or another, dissatisfied. Something is not great. And, more often than not, when I dig into these questions with youth workers, I find the core issue circling around an eroded trust in and respect for the senior pastor (or sometimes for the broader church leadership; but that’s tolerable if the youth worker feels like the senior pastor is honest about it). </p>
<p>Here’s what it boils down to for me: If you’re wondering about leaving, even flirting with the idea, there are some steps to take and questions to ask yourself: </p>
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<p>1. Bring a discernment team around for this purpose alone. Obviously, these need to be highly trustworthy people who will understand the confidentiality of the situation. Read up on Quaker Clearness Committees and give the group permission, even a charge, to ask you anything and everything.</p>
<p>2. Ask yourself, Why am I less than satisfied? Be ruthlessly honest with yourself and journal about it.</p>
<p>3. If your dissatisfaction is centered around a lack of respect for the leadership of the church, you have three options:</p>
<li><em>Leave.</em> If you are bitter and stay, you will do damage. Hear this: Even if the church leadership really is wrong, it’s wrong for you to be a mini Godzilla.</li>
<li><em>Realize you’ll need to leave but not immediately.</em> Set a deadline. Be optimistic and supportive of the church leadership, knowing there’s a light at the end of your tunnel.</li>
<li>Or, <em>find something to respect about your senior leadership</em> and pray for a softened heart and renewed passion.</li>
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<p><a href="http://slant33.com/_blog/slant33-blog/post/How_do_you_know_when_it's_time_to_consider_moving_on_from_a_youth_ministry_role_/">read responses from adam mclane and lars rood here</a>.  and check in on <a href="http://slant33.com/current">slant33.com</a> every monday afternoon for a new question and three slants (or subscribe via email or rss <a href="http://slant33.com/subscribe">here</a>).</p>
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										</div>i wrote a web article for the immerse journal blog back in july. then i forgot about it. so it was a nice surprise to see it show up there today! and, the funny timing is: i wrote this before we&#8217;d decided to do the extended adolescence symposium. it&#8217;s proof i&#8217;ve been stewing on this [...]]]></description>
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<p>here&#8217;s a selection from the article:</p>
<blockquote><p>I was on the phone with a well-known author the other day, talking about extended adolescence. He was asking me questions—in a healthy, skeptical way—about my slowly evolving contention that while we need to acknowledge cultural realities and do ministry in their context, the juggernaut of extended adolescence is something we can and should undermine, at least in our own homes and churches.</p>
<p>After almost 30 minutes of conversation, we arrived at a key crossroads. He made a statement I find to be indicative of the majority opinion of American adults: “It seems to me that the problem you’re referring to comes down to the self-centeredness of young adults today. They’re extremely selfish and have no interest in taking responsibility or becoming adults.”</p>
<p>I paused and took a breath. Then I responded (trying to use “yes, and” language rather than “you’re wrong” language), “Yes, I can totally see why you would say that. Today’s young adults do tend to have a level of narcissism that wasn’t as dominantly present 20 years ago. But that begs the question of why. I suggest they’re narcissistic because they’ve spent their entire lives in families and classrooms and churches and marketing messages that consistently tell them, that everything is all about them. To blame young adults for being narcissistic is like blaming an attack dog for biting. We have isolated teenagers, and now young adults, and then told them their culture is better than ours. Why would they ever want to grow out of that stage of life? How could they?”</p></blockquote>
<p><a href="http://www.immersejournal.com/immerseblog/whats-your-theology-of-development/">click through to read the rest</a>.  there&#8217;s some good stuff in the comments section, btw.</p>
<p><a href="http://theyouthcartel.com/symposium/">click here</a> to check out the info on the extended adolescence symposium.</p>
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										</div>over a year ago, barefoot ministries launched slant33, a creative weekly online set of three responses, by three contributors, to a question that youth workers would find helpful. it was a great start, and mostly interesting. but it also got a big academic at times, and not quite connected enough to the real world of [...]]]></description>
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										</div><p></p><p>over a year ago, barefoot ministries launched <a href="http://www.slant33.com/">slant33</a>, a creative weekly online set of three responses, by three contributors, to a question that youth workers would find helpful.  it was a great start, and mostly interesting.  but it also got a big academic at times, and not quite connected enough to the real world of in-the-trenches youth workers.</p>
<p><a href="http://whyismarko.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/slant33.1.png"><img src="http://whyismarko.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/slant33.1.png" alt="" title="slant33.1" width=400 class="alignright size-full wp-image-9486" /></a>so, after a nice hiatus (i think slant33 vacationed in cancun), barefoot came to <a href="http://theyouthcartel.com/">the youth cartel</a>, and asked us to reimagine it for a year, taking the lead on identifying a new slate of 20 contributors, coming up with the 52 questions for the year, and moderating the whole shebang.  they redesigned the site, making it much more user friendly. i&#8217;m stoked about it, and really hope you&#8217;ll follow it this year, engaging in the comments and joining in the dialogue.</p>
<p>the newly re-launched <a href="http://www.slant33.com/">slant33</a> went live yesterday!  new slants will be posted every monday.  you can subscribe via email or rss <a href="http://www.slant33.com/subscribe">here</a>.</p>
<p>the list of contributors is amazing, including a wide variety of youth ministry thinkers and practitioners with great diversity in every way.  check out the <a href="http://www.slant33.com/contributors">list of contributors here</a>.</p>
<p>the first slant, that went live yesterday, has responses from kara powell, ian macdonald, and tiffanie shanks, to the question: how do you pursue personal skill growth?</p>
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<p>as a tease, the next six slants, going live on mondays in the weeks to come will be:</p>
<blockquote><p><strong>- How far out do you plan your calendar?  Why?  What&#8217;s your process?<br />
- How do you determine the line between vulnerability and over-sharing?<br />
- In what practical ways do you find solitude and rest?<br />
- What time and expectation boundaries should be non-negotiables for youth pastors?<br />
- How is the priesthood of all believers fleshed out in your ministry? How does that impact your role?<br />
- How do you decide what to teach? </strong> </p></blockquote>
<p>and there are 45 more questions following that!  </p>
<p>i hope you&#8217;ll join us!</p>
<p><em>(oh, and i need a small handful of guest contributors for a few slants throughout the year. let me know if you&#8217;re interesting in writing one!)<br />
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