this is the first time i’ve deleted a post.
i was struggling with some stuff i read on another site, and expressed my personal struggle — not accusations — in a post here sunday night. i thought (and this is where i went wrong) that my post wasn’t about trying to point a finger or ‘out’ someone; but it had that impact, and for that, i’m sorry. i don’t want to open it up once again by naming anyone, but know that i apologize. the comments were moving well beyond a place of being helpful, and that’s, ultimately, what caused me to remove the post.